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Today I want to showcase a classic session that I haven't shared on this blog before. It's the beautiful session that I shot with Kalham Amor for Fuse Magazine a few years back.
Kalham Amor is ONE of my favorite people to connect with. Not only is she a Texas-based Desi model, but she is a mental health a chronic illness advocate. While many people hide behind a facade of unwavering happiness on social media, Kalham has decided to take a more authentic approach and let others know that they are not alone.
In one of my favorite Instagram stories from her, she educates her followers advising them that mental health is just as important as physical health. She states that both are connected, and if you are taking care of one, you are taking care of both. I admire how she lets people know that if they are feeling suicidal then they shouldn't feel ashamed. It's okay not to be okay.
Through Kalham and a few other friends, I have learned there is such a thing as an invisible illness. That illness is a mental health issue. Many people don't speak about these issues because they feel ashamed. They feel like they just need to "overcome" it.
Instead of shaming people, we should learn how to become better allies to them. As a friend or family member, you may feel that your hands are tied, but sometimes the best thing you can do is just stay quiet and listen.
Many times people just need to feel seen and heard. However, if you feel as though the conversation is escalating past a degree you can personally help with, then suggest to your friend or family member to see a professional. This means seeing a professional counselor or psychologist. Also, be willing to help. Tell them that you are willing to interview doctors with them, take them to appointments, or attend family therapy sessions.
If you need additional ideas and suggestions on how you can help be a better advocate to a person with mental illness or depression then check out THIS POST by the Mayo Clinic.
To celebrate Kalham Amor, I want to share some beautiful photos we created. The amazing Jazzy Baptiste did the makeup that enhanced this late summer vibe.
Believe it or not, Kalham is a TINY thing. In her photos, she looks about 5'10, but she may be closer to 5'1 or 5'2. This goes to show that you don't need to be as tall as Wonderwoman to give great photos. It's all in the posing.
However, in the coming months, I will write a more detailed blog post about what you can do to look taller in photos.
Today I wanted to post this long-lost set to remind me how beautiful Texas sunsets are, and how much I miss working with and Kalham and Jazzy.
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